Are YOU Stopping Yourself From Obtaining Your Dream Life?
The other day I was on a coaching call with a team member.
Karen hasn’t been hitting her goals, making the money she’d like to make, and was just feeling stuck.
In fact she was thinking about cancelling her trip to our next national event.
So I asked her a question…
WHO is stopping you?
Because she’s been on a personal development program and reading consistently her answer didn’t surprise me…
So I took pause and told Karen not quite. Yes, it’s true, you are the one responsible, but there’s a deeper issue here.
So we began to cover what was going on and I though YOU may want to listen in on the conversation.
Actually, some of the resistance you’re experiencing comes from outside.
Let me ask you this…
How would you like to give yourself the BIGGEST chance to succeed, and blast through the struggle?
I know, that’s kind of a loaded question who wouldn’t.
So let’s look at the facts. For most of us, we’ve had years and years of negative conditioning forced into our heads. Sometimes even by the people we love and are closes to us.
First it’s our family, then our “industrial age” school system, then college professors who have never held a job in the real world, and of course the almighty media who wouldn't know a positive story if it hit them in the face.
Think about the years of negative messages and advice you’ve received, as compared to positive ones.
In general what the “world’ teaches us is a very limiting belief system about what’s possible, and what you think you can do.
- Don’t get your hopes up,
- You don’t want to make too much money,
- Money is the root of all evil,
- You don’t want to be greedy,
- Stay in that job business is very risky,
- Don’t put your money in anything that’s not guaranteed,
- Go to school, get a good education, find a good job, work hard, and everything will work out. (How is that one workin for you?)
I could go on and on but you get the idea.
We all have a long list of things people “who care” have told us either directly or indirectly.
Here is the worse part…
We allow these ideas into our heads, and keep them there until they become part of our belief system.
Now let me ask you…
Do you think this way of thinking will aid you in becoming a successful network marketer?
How likely are you to succeed as an entrepreneur if you have crap like this deeply rooted in your mind?
The answer is… NOT very likely.
The only way to get past this destructive belief system is to replace it by getting around other like-minded people and finding mentors who can lead the way. This is a BIG DEAL!
I believe more dreams and potential success stories are CRUSHED by well-meaning people than anything else on Earth.
Yes you need to know the basic network marketing skills, and if you are working online you need to learn marketing, how to generate traffic, convert traffic to leads, make the sales, and bring in new team members to be a successful.
But because of the negative programing we’ve been exposed to in life there’s still a lot of resistance when it comes to taking action. An inner conflict that’s keeping you paralyzed and feeling stuck, instead of motivated and empowered to just DO IT.
So how do you overcome years of negative programing and deal with people who have the same problem?
The absolute best way to overcome this and get into an empowered mindset is to get around others who are moving in the direction you want to go.
Chances are, it’s not your family, friends, or relatives. Not because they are negative, but because most people simply don’t understand entrepreneurs.
They don’t understand what it’s like to have your livelihood depend on your ability to get up every day, leave your cave, kill something, and drag it back to feed your family. LOL
It’s not like getting a guaranteed paycheck. Completely forgetting your work over the weekend, until the reality “oh crap how I hate going back to work tomorrow” hits you around 6 o’clock on Sunday night.
No, entrepreneurs live in a completely different world.
Their world isn’t understood by “normal” people and I used to fight it, until it finally hit me….
Most people, will never EVER understand this. And if you want to keep your sanity, and move forward in life, you absolutely MUST put myself in a success environment. Among people who are driven to succeed, and not just “get by”, like the rest of the world.
For years, I made it a point, every single year to get myself to some big event. That is to deliberately put myself in an environment conducive to success.
Now I do this multiple times a year.
And that’s in addition to reading, listening to personal development material on how to be a successful network marketer.
You know, I’ve got a Hugh 2 ½ acre backyard filled with Colorado pine trees. And in some of those summers when it’s scorching hot outside the trees suffer and loose that deep green color.
Then, like all Colorado weather if you don’t like it wait it will change, suddenly it rains for a couple of days, and that deep color and smell of pine in the air instantly comes back.
And as a networker, when you lock yourself in a room for a couple of days with a bunch of motivated, goal oriented entrepreneurs, or find that mentorship with likeminded people, it’s like an amazing Colorado thunderstorm. You can’t help but grow and get better.
To change years of negative mindset you also need mentorship that is on the same path as you.
So… if YOU want a breakthrough year, YOU must do everything YOU can to stack the odds of success in YOUR favor.
One last point Karen is going to our national event!
One last request, could you do me a favor…
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To Your Success!
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